Jesus talks about divorce in Mark 10, and this has a way of making most people feel very uncomfortable. Divorce is as much a part of our lives now as it was in the ancient world. So when Jesus speaks so stridently against it, it's easy to hear his words as an attack on ourselves, or people we know and love. And then he starts blessing little children, which seems out of keeping with the sternness of his previous remarks. But his words about divorce and his blessing of children actually have a huge amount to do with each other. He cautions men not to set aside their wives, something they could do in his time for no other reason than not liking the dinner that she prepared. And he cautions the disciples not to ignore or inhibit the children. Both women and children were treated as economic units in the ancient world. The home was the center of the economy, and everyone labored, no matter their age. It was easy for love to be distorted by financial need, and for family members to be valued or devalued depending on the economic good they brought to a family. By conflating teachings about divorce and about children, Jesus is making a larger economic statement. Don't treat people in terms of their utility. Love first, worry about finances later.
This reading has something to say to those of us who are struggling to pay for college, or struggling to pay off college loans. It's easy to feel indentured to work, like there's no way to change jobs or study the things that we really want to study. It's easy to let the worry over finances distort our relationships and choices.
Who are the people that you know you can always go to for help? Join us on Sunday to think through these questions and tell our stories.
Dinner and Worship
6:00 PM
Saint Stephen's Episcopal Church